Tuesday, May 29, 2007 @ 6:07 pm
hi all~ today, I'm going to bring up certain points.

1. Parents should not be biased against children.
2. Children should learn to be more honest.
3. Pampered and spoilt kids should not get spoilt any further.
4. Parents should not use the cane for disciplinary actions.

As for the first point, it is commonly seen everywhere, be it at home, in public places, ANYWHERE. Parents tend to have a greater liking for the last child (as I have noticed). Being biased makes the other child/children jealous or something. They may tend to hate the last child as a result. Parents, you won't want your children to be cold towards each other right?

For the second point, children nowadays should really learn to be more honest. I'll give you some examples:

Scenario 1:
SO-AND-SO (name changed to protect the "fantastic") started to pinch her sister or brother for the sake of fun, but she overdid it. Not only once, but more than 5 times. The sibling of SO-AND-SO, becomes frustrated and begins to get "revenge". He or she began pinching SO-AND-SO back. SO-AND-SO claimed that the pinches hurt and started to wail. Their parent walked up and saw SO-AND-SO crying. SO-AND-SO complained that it was her sibling that pinched her. Without even letting SO-AND-SO's sibling explain the incident, the parent started chidding SO-AND-SO's sibling.

Isn't this pathetic? Parents should try to understand the whole situation first before jumping into any conclusion. Also, parents must listen to both sides, making sure that both sides have made their statements.

The third point. Pampered kids, as we all know, tend to get almost EVERYTHING they want. These children should not be spoilt any further as parents might get them out of hand when they grow up. Parents should understand their childrens' NEEDS and WANTS so that it would be fair.

Advancing towards my last point. The cane should be used appropriately, and not as and when a parent likes. Especially, do not take disciplinary actions on your child after a day's hard work as you might get "out of control". Using the cane for a trivial matter doesn't work well on children as well.

Note: This is not an insult. Children and parents should not misunderstand the above points. Hope you understand that.
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